testimonials

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I found Gary through social media at a time when burnout and addiction had long had their claws into me. I remember thinking, “Let’s give it a go.” My wife was at her wits’ end, and I knew I had to turn things around — for me, for her, for my kids, and for my career.

On the outside, I looked successful: big job, big house, flash cars, a lovely family — so much to live for. But inside, I was exhausted all the time and had lost interest in life. I turned to drink to mask things and to quiet a burned-out brain that kept telling me I was lazy, an imposter, and just riding my luck.

The sessions with Gary took me right into who I was and why I behaved the way I did. We distilled what my true values were and where my near life-long belief system was letting me down. Once we established that, we could develop tools to start turning things around.

For six months, I spoke to Gary every fortnight. I often felt like I hijacked whatever he had planned for the session, but he always had the ability to pivot and drill into the real issues I raised, bringing out a clear plan or technique to deal with them.

Gary is fastidious about follow-ups and about keeping the energy and momentum going between sessions. He always checks in to make sure you’re OK and offers encouragement and ideas when things feel like a struggle.

It was easy to open up to Gary. When you hear his back story, especially if you’re working with him around burnout, you can’t help but relate. He’s patient, he properly listens, and he doesn’t just plough through material if the conversation needs to go somewhere else.

Gary didn’t “fix” all my issues — but he absolutely helped me draw them together so I could see what they were and what steps I needed to take to manage them. He supported me on my continuing road to sobriety, which had been a real struggle before.

Today, I still struggle sometimes, as we all do. But I am sober, more motivated, and I now have a toolbox to deal with whatever comes up. I’m happier, more present at home and at work — and my wife says she’s proud of how far I’ve come.

When I started working with Gary, I was severely burnt out and struggling with depression. I felt exhausted on every level, mentally, emotionally, and physically, and had reached a point where even day-to-day life felt overwhelming. I knew I needed help, but I didn’t know where to begin.

Before coaching, my biggest challenges were feeling stuck, disconnected from myself, and trapped in constant self-criticism. I was pushing myself relentlessly while feeling like I was failing at the same time. Burnout had become my normal.

One of the biggest breakthroughs during the six months was realising that I didn’t need to fix myself, I needed support, structure, and understanding. Gary helped me see patterns I’d been repeating for years and supported me in breaking them at a pace that felt safe and sustainable. For the first time in a long while, I felt genuinely supported rather than judged.

Throughout the programme, I implemented practical tools that helped me regulate my nervous system, set healthier boundaries, and slow my thinking when everything felt too much. These weren’t abstract ideas, they were things I could actually use in my daily life, and they’ve made a lasting difference.

What stood out most was Gary’s balance of compassion and honesty. I always felt listened to, especially during low moments, but I was also gently challenged when I needed it. The space felt safe, human, and real.

I’m now in a far stronger place than when I started — calmer, clearer, and more able to cope without constantly burning myself out. This wasn’t a quick fix, but it was exactly what I needed.

I would wholeheartedly recommend Gary to anyone going through burnout, depression, or a period where life feels overwhelming. His support made a genuine difference during one of the hardest chapters of my life.

I was sceptical about coaching, but Gary’s approach is completely different from the usual fluff. He has a unique way of making you feel capable of so much more than you imagined. Through his guidance, I transitioned from hospitality into a role that aligns with my values and skills. Gary helped me see that I had everything I needed to succeed – I just needed the right direction. Now, I’m in a position where I feel respected, motivated, and genuinely fulfilled. Gary’s impact is real, and he’s truly helped me find my way forward.

I’d been in hospitality for over 10 years, constantly exhausted and feeling like just another cog in the wheel. When I found Gary, I was desperate for change but had no idea where to start. Through his coaching, he didn’t just help me find a new career; he showed me how to see my own worth. Gary guided me into a sales role and taught me skills I didn’t know I had. Today, I’m in a position where I’m respected and well-compensated. The confidence I’ve gained and the fulfilment I feel are beyond anything I expected. Gary’s coaching is genuinely life-changing.

For years, I couldn’t imagine doing anything other than managing restaurants – even though I felt drained and frustrated. The thought of starting over was terrifying. Working with Gary helped me realise I had skills beyond hospitality. His coaching not only showed me how to transition into a sales role but also how to believe in myself again. Now, I’m in a sales position that I never thought I’d be capable of. I’m growing, learning, and excited about my future. I owe Gary so much for helping me break out of my comfort zone and believe in bigger possibilities.

Gary’s coaching transformed my life in ways I didn’t expect. When I first started, I thought he’d just help me figure out a new career path. But Gary’s approach was so much deeper. He helped me rediscover myself – my confidence, my resilience, and my purpose. I’m now in a role that I love, but more importantly, I’ve regained my sense of self-worth and control over my life. Gary’s insight and guidance gave me the tools to break free from a career that was dragging me down. I’m excited about my future for the first time in years.